Winning is important in life and we all want to be winners in our own fields. However, we
are all not successful and one of the reasons for the lack of success is bad habits. Habits can
be compared to a double edged sword. The good ones really help while the bad habits can
have disastrous consequences. There are certain habits practised by people which make
them winners; however, it takes time to master them and put them into practice. They
don’t come easy but when mastered and followed as a routine they make a world of a
difference.
1) Show up even if you do not feel like it: No all of life is comfortable, in fact the often
the important aspects of life can be beyond your comfort zone. It is essential that
you do not shirk responsibility and procrastinate when things are not very
comfortable. Take them head on. You need to do all the things winners do. Hit the
gym even if you feel like sleeping a little more, attend that seminar despite having a
less important but relaxing event to attend. Stick to a weight loss program despite
severe bouts of temptation. Every effort you put in towards your goals makes you a
winner.
2) No excuses for losing: It is not possible to win at everything you do. And in certain
tasks it takes many instances of losing before you can emerge a winner. The
difference in moving forward is your attitude when you lose. Losers blame someone
else for their loses and immediately give up. Winners on the other hand learn from
their mistakes, do not put their head down in shame and decide to get back
stronger. Get into this determined habit despite not having the best of outcomes
and you will be a winner in life.
3) Stay away from negativity and gossip: Winners never indulge in gossip. They have
much more in life to do then talk about others. They are busy living their own lives.
There are people who will demotivate you and laugh at your goals, such negativity is
not acceptable in your life and you need to immediately move on by letting go of
such influences in your life.
4) Surround yourself with successful people: A man is known by the company he
keeps. Could the reverse of this also be true? Could a man become just like the
company he keeps? If possible always hang out with people who are better than
you! It is good for your self-development. When you hang out with people who are
more successful than you, you raise the bar for your own life. Extraordinarily
successful people have lots of interesting things to talk about. They do not indulge in
petty talks, negative topics and talks of scarcity. They look forward to bettering their
life each day and these are just the right people that you need to hang out with.
5) Seek help: Successful people know that life cannot be lived in solitude. No man is an
island. We all need to interact and mingle with each other each day. Successful
people network effectively and take help from professionals like Life Coaches
whenever needed. I have coached 100’s of successful businessmen to better
themselves in more ways than one.
It is important to develop habits of winners that will enhance your life and make you more
productive. Get into the habit of winning. If you want to better yourself and script the life of
your dreams, then check out my programs on my website www.mariosequeira.org . Many of
the programs are ABSOLUTELY FREE.