We need to learn to accept certain realities and move on instead of clinging on to them till our grave. If you cling on to failures it will affects your self-improvement. Here are few ways by which we can accept certain unpleasant truths in your life.

1) You do not excel at your passion only because you don’t practice enough: We often take our jobs and hobbies for granted and that is why we do not do well at what we do. Learn to not to give up on your passions unless they become obviously detrimental to you.

2) We can never prepare for the death of our loved ones: The harsh reality is that we are all born to die. No matter how much we hold on to someone they are going to leave us some day. Make the best of the times that you have with your loved ones knowing full well that everything will pass.

3) You can’t lose weight if you do not change the way you eat: What you do has brought you to where you are today. If you don’t change and continue doing what you do you can never change the present for the better future. If you do not bring any change in your diet you will not bring any change in your weight. You have to pay the price. It may be cutting out fat, oil, junk, exercising whatever the case maybe you got to do it.

4) You can’t please everyone: No one has the potential to keep everyone happy. We cannot please all. Even an ice cream seller won’t be able to please all. There will surely be a missing flavour. So lead your life whether everyone is happy with you or not. Everyone cannot be our friend.

5) To make money learn this misunderstood fundamental: First decide how much you will save from your earnings then spend what is left. Most of us do just the opposite. We save what is left after spending. This is the universal truth of getting rich. 6) You are your toughest critic: Don’t be your harshest critic. Too much self-criticism will disempower you. It will hold you down and stop you from progressing.

7) We are all lazy: No matter what you do you just cant keep at it all day and every day. You must take a break to nourish and nurture yourself. Make sure to and work well during the time allotted for your work. Make time for nourishing and nurturing yourself. Take time off to spend with your loved ones.

Accept these harsh truths so that you can move forward in life. Make these changes to your life and things will look different for you.